Gary,
Echoing some of what Tom A. said.
Grind with 24-36 grit both inside & out. Grind a bigger area than you think you need. I'd go about 6" all around inside and probably 3-4" all around on the outside. As Jay said, you can use thin C/A (alpha cyanoacrylate adhesive-also at a model airplane hobby shop) to toughen it up but that will be accomplished with the laminating.
If using polyester resin (that's what I recommend), you MUST laydown a layer of CSM (chopped strand Mat) FIRST. This is required to give a bulk to your material to give a bond. FYI note: epoxy is fine with glass alone but Polyester MUST have a bonding layer of CSM.
Start with a piece to cover the entire area. Catalyze your resin (do not EVER apply uncatalyzed to anything), wetting it out. Once wetted, lay it in place. Successive layers may be smaller until the area is filled. You can follow the CSM with 1708 (that's 17-18 oz. sewn cloth-usually at 45-45 with a layer of 3/4 oz. CSM on the back). Prewet the CSM side and place CSM side toward the area to be repaired. Roll everything down with a resin roller and eliminate ALL airbubbles.
On the outside, do the same and overfill. You can then grind it down, smooth it out and gel coat it afterwards.
Holler if there are any unanswered questions.
Lou