A Harker story, a little more bad news but something good too

Scott O.

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As I was boiling sap today, I remembered a story that made me laugh to myself.

Last year, I bought a new gun, the Taurus m4410 revolver that shoots both a .45LC or a 2 1/2" .410 shell. Lee's immediate "Harkerism" response was " I always wondered what kind of a guy would buy THAT gun". A few months later, a package comes to me out of the blue from Sturgis...containing most of a box of .45LC rounds. I asked him what I could do in return and he said "I don't know but you better not send me money". I looked around and remembered he had said once that he wanted to taste that "homemade syrup". So I boxed up a big jar and included an autographed geunine paper mache corn cob decoy. His response to me was from the movie "Dancing with Wolves" - "Good....trade" and as we talked he sounded genuinely happy about both items. Made me smile to think of it.

Since his diagnosis in January, he and I messaged back and forth to discuss the cancer. We shared a little secret and unfortunately, a common bond.

During my annual physical in January, they found that my PSA level had increased significantly enough to require a prostate biopsy. It came back positive. As encouraging as we tried to be to one another, it was a crushing blow. His death last week knocked me to my knees. I waited to say anything here other than to Steve in private because sometimes too much bad news can be hard to take and it doesn't do any good to cause anyone to worry or feel bad. I couldn't think of anything good to say about it in public. It was just more bad news. And I apologize to you Steve Sutton, for dropping a bomb your way.

But heres the good news...surgery is this Thursday at Henry Ford Hospital in Detroit by a doctor that I am lucky enough to live 70 miles away from. He is apparently considered to be one of the best if not the best surgeon in the world using the Veil Method, Da Vinci robotic surgery. He has told me that he thinks we caught it very early so hopefully it hasn't spread anywhere else.

So as I try to find good in all this badness, it occured to me that I had better quit worrying about myself and come up with something positive instead. To do that, I need your help. I am going to ask you all, my friends, to do two things for me. First, I am asking that you guys send my family and me some positive vibes if you think of it Thursday. I truly, honestly think we can beat this thing 100%. Second, I want you guys who dont already do it, to schedule your annual physical and get the blood testing done to check your PSA and establish a baseline to compare against in future physicals. Early detection is the key and its what I am praying is going to save my sorry ass. Do it please...for yourself, your family and your friends who care about you.
 
I am not a praying man, per say, but I AM spiritual.

I will keep you in my thoughts Thursday.

My friend is going thru the same thing diagnosis, different procedure, in Atlanta, GA as we write.

BTW, You sold me a bunch of E. Allen Goldeneye heads a while back. I actually have them finished. I used re-shaped Herters 72 bodies, burlapped them, attached the heads, then painted. Someday I will post some pics. Thank You again!

Good Luck!
 
Holy smokes. You've caught me flat footed here. I will continue to pray for you my friend.
Let's not put Sapphire & get togethers off anymore. Let's have fun.
Later partner,
Lou
 
Scott,

Thanks for sharing your story and your request for thoughts, prayers & good vibes. I'll be sending all three.
I have a friend who is in exactly the same situation you are in & has the same positive prognosis. As you indicated, yearly PSA tests are the key. God thing ou caught it early.
 
Roger Wilco on the positive vibes. I am a total believer that they can help.

On the PSA test.......... I'll be 60 in a couple of months and started a PSA baseline pretty close to 20 years ago if memory serves. Other than one spike that scared me about 10 years ago it has remained good. I too encourage every guy to get a baseline for their PSA as well as all people for their cholesterol. I am continually amazed at how many people who have no idea what either is or why they should be concerned.

I am reminded of a quote I see on the mirror at the health club. " Take care of your body, it's the only one you have to live in."

Good luck,
 
Scott, Thanks for the reminder- I am overdue for a tune up. You will be in my thoughts as the days go by. Good Luck.
 
Scott hang in there buddy prayers and vibes from the UK
Eddie.
 
Scott
Having just gone thru some of what you are going thru it isn't the pleasantist but you get thru it okay. At least it won't ruin your hunting season like it did mine. My only one day of duck hunting was in a chair, lake side, with a leg catheter. I was able to shoot my new 28ga s/s for the first time and did get ducks so you gotta do what you gotta do. Good luck!
wis boz
 
thanks for the Harker memory and the prayers will be coming yo9ur way from the Mickey D houshold. I have my PSA checked every year along with the old digital. My Dad had protate cancer and so did my grandfather.....chances are so I am diligent. Postitive thoughts.........

Willy and Di
 
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