You are at the edge of a very slippery slope my friend.
If you have a large used book store then hopefully you can cruise the craft/woodworking shelves and find something that you like. A lot of books repeat what can be found in other books so it is hard to pick out any best book. You want books that go step by step and don't leave you to figure out what happens between each one. After awhile all you will need is a picture.
Nick Engler makes some OK books for starting out. I stay away from Sunset or Time-Life books as well as Popular Mechanic books, but they do have good basic knowledge in them that you may find useful.
Here is a link to a book store here in Anchorage, AK that has a huge wood working section. You will pay shipping to the states, but you can save lots of money over the publishers price. They also sell new books at market value and sometimes get new books in a bulk discount and pass it on to the buyer.
http://www.wavebooks.com/catalog/advanced_search_result.php?keywords=wood+working
I have been reading Fine Wood Working and Fine Home Building for the last 16 years and get most of my inspiration and "how to" from those sources. The pubisher (Taunton) might have the largest selection of wood working source books in the US. They make DVDs as well.
http://www.taunton.com/finewoodworking/
This is a list of their basic starting out books.
http://www.taunton.com/finewoodworking/store/pages/getting-started-in-woodworking.asp
The best way to learn wood working is to read your tools owner manuals and then "play" with the tools just to make some saw dust and shorter pieces of wood.
The most important thing to learn is how to sharpen chisels and plane blades. There are dozens of ways to do this. However the best way for the beginner is to buy a honing guide from Lee Valley Tools (
http://www.leevalley.com/wood/page.aspx?c=2&p=51868&cat=1,43072,43078&ap=1,) get a small sheet of plate glass or stone tile, some spray glue, and some wet/dry sand paper. Fine wood working has a couple of the best articles about this system. Of course this won't hollow grind the tools, which if you get real serious you will end up wanting to learn how to do.