How young is too young...

SJ Fairbank

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Thought it might be fun to hear everyone's thoughts and experiences on when kids should shoot/hunt. A few posted regarding the turkey hunting incident in WI, but it's pertinent to waterfowl as well.

I've mentioned it before, my first time duck hunting was when I was right around four. We did not have deer or turkey hunting in the 60's in CT. Having been born in November, I may have still been three. No doubt my mother encouraged my father to take me since I guess I was a little devil. My wife says some things never change. 😲 I was definitely permitted to whack a couple on the water, resting the gun on the front of the blind. The old timers got a kick out of watching me getting "kicked". According to my mother, my greatest achievement that first season was getting my hands frostbitten. My father and grandfather got big stinkeye from my mother and grandmother when I got home from the doctors office with bandages on both hands. The earliest I can recall shooting ducks flying was when I was six/seven, the first two species were coots (scoters) and teal. I'm not sure which was first.

We always shot a few clay targets, thrown by hand over our Christmas Tree farm. That was my intro to shotgun shooting, when I was too small to hold the gun alone. I got a lot of practice at starlings, pigeons and the like on my buddy's family farm down the street to the tune of many thousands of shells each year by the time I was around ten. The farmer welcomed anybody who would rid him of the birds, as there were vast flocks gobbling up the silage stored in a large open pit. He also fed his pigs donuts from two local stores, once they were twenty four hours old he bought them for a couple bucks per flour sack. We loved that, we could sit on a sack and eat donuts while we shot. There were four of us, same age, who shot as a group at the farm until our early twenties. We never did anything reckless or did any damage or hurt anybody. It was a different time, those opportunities don't exist anymore. What I cringe about is that none of us wore shooting glasses or hearing protection, I'm getting pretty hard of hearing in my old age.

I'm not saying everybody should turn single digit aged kids loose, just that it is possible to do in some cases. Agreed that every kid matures at his/her own pace, I know some 16 year olds I wouldn't trust with my BB gun. In large measure IMO those knuckle heads are the kids whose parents never do outdoor stuff with them, they just "shoot" on the couch in a video game. Over the years I've taking a few such kids under my wing and straightened 'em out, as best an old miscreant can. :) Based on my observations, I think people wait way too long to get kids started. I think 12 is too old. Once they pick up some other hobby, or start looking for dates, it's harder to get them hooked. They say the family that plays together stays together, which I think we all agree is a good thing.

What I hope doesn't happen as a result of the WI thing is some do-gooder proposing that young kids can't hunt. It is totally on the parent, as somebody else said the parent must have had a hand on the gun if not complete control. Far better to get kids in the woods then looking at four walls and a computer screen.

Just the ramblings and opinions of an old fart who had every opportunity in the world as a kid.
 
Totally depends on the kid and the quality of their mentorship. My son has been on the dove field learning with me since he was 3 but didn't start toting a gun until he was 8 or 9.
I was expecting 7,8, or 9ish to be the prevailing age in responses. Good job, I think that's a good age. Hopefully you've made a lifelong hunting buddy.
 
Growing up in PA law was 12 years old to buy a license and hunt, under supervision until 16. I went with my dad some years before that. But could not legally hunt until you took the safety course and passed the test. Getting our PA Hunter Safety Card was a right of passage.
Alabama has no minimum age but you have to pass the test to get your license at 16. My son started going with me at 6, shooting at 9 or 10. Daughter started going with me when she was in 4th and 5th grade and would have started shooting in 6th if we didn’t move.
Overall, it depends on the kid, the parent and the law.
I see posts about killing deer at 5-6. I have a had time understanding putting a gun in the hands of a kid that young. Not matter how closely supervised.
 
Growing up in PA law was 12 years old to buy a license and hunt, under supervision until 16. I went with my dad some years before that. But could not legally hunt until you took the safety course and passed the test. Getting our PA Hunter Safety Card was a right of passage.
Alabama has no minimum age but you have to pass the test to get your license at 16. My son started going with me at 6, shooting at 9 or 10. Daughter started going with me when she was in 4th and 5th grade and would have started shooting in 6th if we didn’t move.
Overall, it depends on the kid, the parent and the law.
I see posts about killing deer at 5-6. I have a had time understanding putting a gun in the hands of a kid that young. Not matter how closely supervised.
I get it about the 6 and under kids. I'm not sure what age I would be comfortable with in 2026.
What's the deal in FL? Is there an age limit?
 
“In Florida, individuals are required to buy a hunting license at 16 years old. Residents 65 and older do not need a license, and children under 16 are exempt, but anyone born on or after June 1, 1975, must pass a Hunter Safety Course to hunt without supervision.”

Not very clear.
 
“In Florida, individuals are required to buy a hunting license at 16 years old. Residents 65 and older do not need a license, and children under 16 are exempt, but anyone born on or after June 1, 1975, must pass a Hunter Safety Course to hunt without supervision.”

Not very clear.
Yes, not very specific. Sounds like there's no minimum age based on the phrase "children under 16 are exempt", but I'd need confirmation before taking a youngster with his/her own gun.
 
I see posts about killing deer at 5-6. I have a had time understanding putting a gun in the hands of a kid that young. Not matter how closely supervised.
Pretty trendy these days to take your far-too-young kid out to a blind and have them "shoot" an animal for some social media pics/cred. My wife has shown me several pics the last few years of 2 and 3 YO kids posing with a critter "they shot" with their parent. Good on the parents for taking them out, but I can't see them fully understanding what they are doing at that age. Several of them have seemed more like a justification for a dad to bag a turkey on a youth season day and not waste a tag for later in the season.
 
Pretty trendy these days to take your far-too-young kid out to a blind and have them "shoot" an animal for some social media pics/cred. My wife has shown me several pics the last few years of 2 and 3 YO kids posing with a critter "they shot" with their parent. Good on the parents for taking them out, but I can't see them fully understanding what they are doing at that age. Several of them have seemed more like a justification for a dad to bag a turkey on a youth season day and not waste a tag for later in the season.
The parent bagging extra game has always been an argument for setting minimum ages. Fishing is the same. Call me an optimist or naive, I think the vast majority of parents set the kids up to do the actual shooting (or catching). The upside of recruiting youngsters to hunting and fishing is more important to me than weeding out the game hogs. Not disagreeing with you that really young kids get much out of it, other than just being outdoors with their parent.
 
When you bring child hunting, make sure they are warm. Bring them in the pm, favorite book or electronics so if they get bored they can keep busy. Be ready to leave if they get cranky. This is supposed to be fun. Handeling guns depends on child and parent, some I wouldn't agree with. SAFETY IS FIRST
 
The parent bagging extra game has always been an argument for setting minimum ages. Fishing is the same. Call me an optimist or naive, I think the vast majority of parents set the kids up to do the actual shooting (or catching). The upside of recruiting youngsters to hunting and fishing is more important to me than weeding out the game hogs. Not disagreeing with you that really young kids get much out of it, other than just being outdoors with their parent.
I’ll call you naive (just kidding).

Devil’s advocate- if you are naive, what have we recruited? Their mentor was a cheat. Probably a cheat. They don’t know any different. If they will cross that line, they’ll often cross others such as baiting- it’s for the kids after all.
 
I will chime in with a couple thoughts.
(A) safety,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, yes a child or any person for that matter must be physically capable of handling the weapon of choice. Handling the weapon in a safe manner.
(B) ethics/value of a living being,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, the person taking the shot, should have a solid understanding of what is actually happening. The understanding of the cycle of life, everything here on earth is subject to.
 
I’ll call you naive (just kidding).

Devil’s advocate- if you are naive, what have we recruited? Their mentor was a cheat. Probably a cheat. They don’t know any different. If they will cross that line, they’ll often cross others such as baiting- it’s for the kids after all.
I have no doubt that some cheat. The worst will do it whether the child is 3 or 12, and there's a good chance the child will pick up those bad habits. I still believe bad behaviour is the exception, and think it's better to let some bad apples slip through than ruin it for the majority.
 
I was fortunate that my mentors were all WWII vets (this was prior to safety courses). Handling guns in a safe manner was first and foremost with zero tolerance for errors, and strict supervision. I shot my first pheasant at age 9, with a .410, on a game farm with my 3 cousins and our mentors. At age 12, doves, small game, and waterfowl, again under strict supervision. At 14, I began to deer hunt with my mentors who did not carry a gun. Learned to handle and shoot a rifle by much practice at the range and then groundhog hunting 5 days a week with mentors. At age 16 we were allowed to hunt on our own, and sometimes did so. We still had much to learn. At 18 we were turned loose and trusted to do the correct things.

The correct foundation pretty much makes a hunter what he or she is from BB & pellet guns to shotguns and rifles. A healthy dose of ethics, respect and conservation woven deep into ones fabric at a young age very important. Much satisfaction comes years later when we then look after our mentors during hunts, and time spent outdoors. Full circle if one is blessed to live long enough.

my 2 cents
 
I was 8 the first time I went duck hunting. Looking back, my Dad had no idea what he was doing. He got me a single shot 12 ga, that kicks like an absolute mule. My dad bought me a duck whistle and I played with it a ton on the back porch before that first hunt. So it was finally time, we tredged out to the marsh, he got me set in place, ducks flew by.... BANG single shot (missed) and the break action comes open and the shell hits me square behind the eyes. I was so scared of that damn gun right then and there. I was waist deep in the water, so my dad was about mid thigh or knee deep and had to catch me from falling on my butt in the water. I wouldnt touch that shotgun after that but I truly enjoyed being out there and watching the art of duck hunting. I didnt understand how to blow a duck call yet, but i could work that whistle and the first time I watched teal pass by, I hit that little whistle and they hooked right back to the decoys and I watched my dad shoot 2 of them. I was hooked hooked hooked.

After that first hunt, I didnt want anything to do with that shotgun. My dad took me trap shooting and I used his 12 ga winchester pump. It was heavy and big for me but I enjoyed less recoil and shells not flying at my face. I begged and begged for him to take me again, but he never did. He just flat out told me, he was too old and didnt enjoy the waking up early and being cold. I never forgot that hunt and turning that teal with a whistle. I kind of thought i would never duck hunt again and years and years went by and I never went again. It wasnt until I was 16, started dating one of my high school girlfriends, and went to her house for dinner. Her step dad was late to dinner, and the girls were all upset. He got home, i went to the garage to greet him (I always tried to greet parents and be respectful) when i realized he was unloading piles of duck hunting gear. I told him he was in trouble but that I didnt know he duck hunted. He had been avid for quite some time, so I kind of asked if I could go sometime. Needless to say, we were in trouble a lot for the next couple years until the girlfriend and I didnt work out any longer.

The day I turned 18, I bought my first lab. I knew right then and there, thats the journey I was headed in life. Ive taken youngsters as young as 12, but they werent gun shy and their parents already kind of had them gun prepped. So its easy. I will never have my own children, so this is kind of hard for me to answer on what an appropriate age is. I think the right equipment, and letting them be familiar with the equipment before heading into the marsh is the wisest move. See that before hand will kind of tell you when they are ready.

This is going to sound kind of terrible, but its the same with labs. My first girl was very mature and she was hunting by 8 months and was just rock solid and a go getter. My current little spaz didnt hunt until she was 14 months. Through training, i just knew she wasnt ready until then. I suppose kids are the same way. I guess I was like my spaz now, not ready at 8 years old... or i just couldnt handle that shotgun and it put a fear in me that made me not want to shoot at all. Wanted to go, but just couldnt bring myself to fire that shotgun again.

PS....

I have that shotgun in my safe today.... I still have never shot it again.
 
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