On the boat I had that had grass rails, I believe the gap was 3/8", frankly, I find grass rails a pain in the neck. Takes a while to stuff them tight, and a pain to put more in when it starts breaking off and falling out, and while a lot of grass looks pretty, it gets heavy when it absorbs water. If your motor is just marginally big enough, it will slow you down.
My solution was 1/4" bungee cord with a cable clip about every 16", easy and fast to stuff, and easy to add more or different grass or vegetation.
If the white of the bungee cord freaks you out, dye it or dip in net coat.