Ed,
I like the point your making. We're all in this together. I'm 30 and drive a nice truck and hunt from a TDB. I'm fortunate to have a good job and my wife does as well and we spend our money on what is important to us. But there are times at the ramp that people shy away from me, possibly because of the appearance that a TDB can seem uppity. I don't know for sure. Last year a guy in a john boat cut me off backing into the ramp and backed down into the water before getting his gear in order and then sat there with the boat in the water loading it up. Well, he forgot his plug.. when he launched the boat it was already full of water.. and sank as he pulled away. Not seeing what happened I pulled down, launched and parked. Went back to see only the blind out of the water on the john boat. I waited for the other hunter to come back to the ramp.. he was messing around at the truck. Asked him if he wanted some help, he was kinda jerky earlier but that is a tough spot to be in. He turned around and walked away like he didn't hear me. So, I went hunting.
At my in-laws in Jersey no one talked to me at the ramp the first few YEARS I hunted there. Now, I'm one of the regulars and we even swap tips on where the birds are! But it took years of using the same ramp! As with anywhere they are a little territorial and leary of out of state plates, no offense jersey guys, we're the same here.
I'm happy to hunt with anyone who enjoys the hunt. If there are birds to shoot, heck yeah lets shoot 'em! If there aren't any birds or it's slow, quit your whining or your not getting another invite! I had a hunt this year where we killed some birds. I had a good time watching the guys I had with enjoying themselves. I never picked the gun up. They were not shots I would have enjoyed. One was a merganser that decoyed well, I would have shot him but let someone else. After the hunt I saw the merg headed for the trash can at the ramp. The guy sited the health advisory on not eating to many of them and that they don't taste good. I asked why he shot it. He said because we were duck hunting, that's what he came for. He won't be coming back with me. I would have shot it also, same result for the merg, but I would have and did eat it although not my bird. Some of the other birds that day swam into the spread and were flushed and shot. Again, not really my thing but the guys with enjoyed it. I have nothing morally against, just not what I was after that day. I do sneak hunt creeks which is the same basic thing. The guys I had with had a great time and I enjoyed taking them, right up until the merg incident! I hope I can keep taking new duck hunters with and showing them what makes me enjoy it so much.
If there are guys in my area bringing in piles of ducks I want to know what the heck they're doing! I don't often get to think about NOT shooting at ducks, I'm alot more concerned about getting TO shoot some ducks!
Best wishes,
Gene