Memories of 'stuff' and wishing I had just a little more 'stuff'

TimJ

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Howard's Victor Decoy post and even Worth's post last week brought back some memories both good and bad.

I know memories are mine and those aren't going anywhere... but there is still that stuff we all have or wish we had that keeps those memories alive.

I have my Grandfather's Winchester Model 12 20ga. He passed away when I was too young to remember him so it reminds me more of my Grandmother who gave it to me. I normally hunt with a Model 50 that my father bought new in the 50s and it has never given any of us a bit of trouble over all these years.

There is a simple Martin fly reel that my uncle gave to me when I was about 8. He passed away when I was 11.

I have a silly little three point shed that I found while turkey hunting with my brother in law.... oh gosh I guess it has been 12 years now since I found that. The next year he would be gone from cancer, I knew when we were hunting it was likely the last time.

There are those stupid bolts on the ends of a few decoy lines that reminds me of my first few years duck hunting. My brother and his buddies all in their early 20's were quite the role models for a kid 10 years younger. :)

This brings me to what I wish I had. This nearly makes me sick to think about.

A year and a half ago an old gentleman who I have hunted with for years was moving to a smaller home. Understandable since he was about 82 at that time but you wouldn't know it looking at him, it was more that his wife couldn't get around the larger house anymore. So they have an auction and are getting rid of some of his bulky hunting stuff.

I have hunted with him for 30 years now. He was a teacher and a tough as nails football coach. My dad worked at the school and my mother worked for him and his wife at a greenhouse they owned. He's been a very close family friend for years.

At the auction the only thing I wanted were some hard plastic Herters decoys that I had carried many times while they clunk and clank against eachother and the anchors in their bag. You know that sound if you've ever carried those hard plastic decoys.

He had a cool Duck Twin motor and a few gnarly wooden crow decoys along with an owl (they all went for way more then I could afford). So it gets to his bag of old Herters hard plastics that look like those Victors and the auctioneer for some reason throws in some old waders.

I start to bid thinking nobody is going to want them but me. I'm almost right as all the guys who wanted the wooden ones are ignoring these. After a few bids I notice they are getting up to more then I thought they should and see it is one of his daughters bidding against me. I figure some of the kids might want them so I quite. I had been helping and talking to her father so I thought she knew who I was and wouldn't bid against me for no reason.


I go over to her afterwards and ask if she'd sell one of two so I could have something of his. Here is where it makes me sick. I had thought she was buying them, no she was asked to bid on them for someone else who had to leave. They wanted the freakin waders and decided with the decoys thrown in they would be good for their teenage grandkid to use/trash. She hasn't been around here much for years so had no clue I go out hunting with him and outbid me for some idiot kid who probably cracked half of them the first time out. They paid more then you could have gone to a store and bought good new decoys for.


It wasn't really her fault, I should have just asked him for them before the auction. He would have given them to me but I don't like to do that.

The past couple years I've pheasant hunted with him a few more times. He still out walks me and he would still duck hunt but he has been busy helping his son in law with harvest during that time.


Late last fall on a quick afternoon pheasant hunt with him I think was the first time I ever had to give him a hand getting up a little ditch he had stepped into. Not bad for a guy who was nearing 84, he has always been in awesome shape. We (well maybe just 'I') missed a couple birds and shot a skunk on that day.


A few days ago my mom learned he has cancer. I haven't heard how bad it is but it sounds like a couple spots so that is never good.

No matter what happens now I have those memories.... but dang I sure wish I had those decoys.... nearly worthless hard plastic decoys that make me think of him and my father talking on saturday mornings about the football game the night before.

Sorry for my long winded ramblings,
Tim
 
Tim,
its the ones that get away that stick in your memory. Both the sporting related "Stuff" and hunting partners.
Good job putting it in words.
Thinking of you and your friend.
You are lucky to have had the great days afield to go back over in the hard ones ahead.

Bob
 
......... they clunk and clank against eachother and the anchors in their bag. You know that sound if you've ever carried those hard plastic decoys.



Man, that's a great line. And so true. Brought back memories :-) Had a sackful of them that the guy who I started hunting waterfowl with lent me when I started to put together my own collection of "stuff" so i could strike out on my own.
 
I'm right there with you Tim, sorry to hear it. You have got the important stuff, but the tangible stuff really is part of the whole picture.

T
 
Thought that was one great story, Tim. I happened to stick on this line of yours---"[font=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica]No matter what happens now I have those memories.... but dang I sure wish I had those decoys...." It instantly made me think of the box from Herters that came to our home for me in 1956. It had the 6 pintail decoys I had ordered. Boy, I wished that I had them now-----just one!
Al
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Great writing Tim. I'm sad for you that you didn't get the items you wanted. But as someone else said, you have the memories. I try not to think back at all the dumb stuff I did when I was younger, like trading the little .410 S x S I shot my first pheasant with for a Sears Ted Williams 12 ga. pump. I honestly can't even remember what happened to the Ted Williams pump gun, but I remember that day 40+ years ago that I shot my first pheasant like it was this morning...
 
Tim,

I really enjoyed reading this. I know that sound! I also remember the burlap gunny sacks they were in and the smell of wet dog on those sacks as that was the dogs prefered place to sleep in the blind after the mornings flight was over. I remember the Remington 58 my dad gave me when he bought his first 1100 and I remember the kid that stole it out of my truck! That was 1974. I've heard he is in prison but I sure would like to have that gun back! I remember when my Uncle Ole died who was my hunting mentor as well as my dad's and I was living and working out of town not able to get to his funeral. Nor in those days could I afford to buy any the hunting items my aunt had to sell to make ends meet. That old A5 comes to mind as well as his little Ithaca 38 in 16ga. Man I'd loved to have that one. Anyway I could go on but thanks for jarring the memories.
 
Thanks for that post Tim. You remind us that it's the stories that make things valuable, and it's the people we care about that make the stories.
Rick
 
Great post Tim. I tbet we all have a few memories of each sort.

This past Fall I knew my grandma had some of my grandpas old decoys around and I had been bugging here about it for years now but I think she just didnt want to give up some of the last things she had of him. Finally after a painting job I completed for her and after showing here my alubm of pictures from the Fall she whipped out the old bag and gave me 3 of them. I even took the pintail as the traveling decoy on my trip to Texas. Same as you I was to young to really know my grandpa when he died but knowing he had herters decoys and a black lab is enough to know where I got the itch to hunt from. In fact I will be restoring his old boat this summer that he used for salmon fishing on lake Michigan instead it will now be a layout tender rig. My uncle was selling it and theres just no way I could let it get outside of the family.

An item I wished I had never let get by wasn't really duck related. My other grandpa, who lived in Texas, died a few summers back and they put his F-250 up for sale. He had only purchased it 10 or so years previous and being older there were hardly any miles on it recently and I know it was taken good care of. I still have memories of his last time he visted WI and I got to help load the bed of that pick-up with lumber for a project in our basement. Right at the time he died I was looking to buy my first truck and really didnt speak up enough because thought the diesel truck would be way out of my price range. Come to find out they sold the truck for $6k just 1k more than the truck I bought.
 
Tim thanks for sharing your memories when it really comes down to it the best things that we have are memories! Cherish them they are the greatest possesion you have.
 
Tim,I'm sure glad you started this thread.I appreciate your thoughts and I can identify with
every post on this thread.I reread this whole thread this morning ,then I went into my woodshop and touched
the two collars and the one leash that hang there.Dogs that owned me and hunted with me years ago.
They gave me more than I ever could have given them.I had chuckled when I read Al's post about the
Herters decoys.I went rootin' around in an old chest and found the only thing I have left that I ordered
out of the Herter's catalog.A "model perfect" guide knife,a Russel/Green River shaped thing.I bought this
in the early sixties before I was drafted.I didn't use it much,I had an old carbon steel Case XX large barlow
that was better suited to my needs.(Wish I still had that one.)'Looked at some old pictures and realized why
the dog and I hunt alone so much.Old friends ,moved ,gone,or both.In recent years I tend to do this kinda'
thinking when I'm staring out across the decoys or sitting in a tree stand.This thread has been a good
reminder that good memories should always be close to the front.Thanks Tim for starting this and thanks
to everyone who posted............Chris
 
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