Hey all,
I was wondering if y'all would be interested in helping me with something. I was down visiting Debby this weekend and I asked her about if she has thought anything about a memorial for Steve. She said she has, a little, but is overwhelmed with the entire process and is still overwhelmed with just getting through all the stuff that needs doing now so a memorial is kind of on the back burner. One of her sister-in-laws has been sort of nagging her about it and Debby is like....well you plan it and I'll be there. She said the venue would need to be a large venue just for the amount of family that he has and if anyone other than family showed up (which she thought was pretty low of very many people coming...I disagree but that's not important right now). She said that maybe at the one year mark for the timeframe, which she acknowledged would be a bad time of the year for people who hunt because that would be November. But it got me thinking.
She has kept all of the cards and notes that people have sent (she has some that she leaves out to look at that have pictures and little stories of Steve and the author) and it kind of gave me an idea. I was thinking that it might be nice to collect a bunch of pictures and stories from people who have hunted, fished, carved, just hung out with Steve and then I could take those and create a book for her so that she could be reminded of how many people liked/admired/loved him from all over the place.
I THINK the easiest way to go about this would be for people to post on this thread and then I could copy the stories and pictures from this thread into some sort of document. I can begin researching the best places to get a book like this made and what I have to do formatting wise so if anyone has ideas on this I would appreciate it. Part of why I think posting on this thread would be good would be because it would allow everyone to share some stories with each other. I know Debby had mentioned at one time perhaps two memorials...one for family and one for his hunting/fishing/carving friends. I know she isn't up for planning two memorials any time soon. I have thought of taking the reins for the hunting/fishing/carving friends but I wouldn't know where to start, how well attended it might be and right now I'm a bit overwhelmed with things. So, in creating this thread it could be kind of a memorial for the hunting/fishing/carving community.
I know that Steve was not always politically correct and could be quite outrageous sometimes so if you have stories/pictures you would like to share that you don't feel should be posted in an online forum but wouldn't mind sharing with Debby, then you can email them to me at
stevesmemorybook@gmail.com
If y'all think this is a good idea and would be open to me creating a book from y'alls stories to give to Debby then feel free to post stories and I'll begin looking for different publishing companies. I don't really have a deadline set in stone on this but since Debby mentioned that maybe at the one year mark, that would be November 13, 2020. I figure that if I had everything together by October 1, 2020 then I could probably get the book printed out for her and have it ready for the memorial service. That way if there is only one service and there are people who would like to come but can't make it for whatever reason, y'all are there in spirit.
So, I suppose here are the "rules":
I would like to keep this thread here so that I'm not going all over the internet trying to collect stories for this project. Plus it gives me a gauge on how much interest there is in a project like this. If there isn't much interest, then I will move on from this idea. I know though there are people who posted in the original thread who do not visit often so if y'all know people who would possibly be interested in this, shoot them this threads link. They don't have to post here...they can email me at the email above if they would like. I just don't want stories posted all over the internet that I have to keep track of.
Sooooo I guess...are you guys interested in this?
Maybe Eric could make this a sticky if people are really on board with this.
And y'all please continue to keep Debby in your thoughts.
Dani
I was wondering if y'all would be interested in helping me with something. I was down visiting Debby this weekend and I asked her about if she has thought anything about a memorial for Steve. She said she has, a little, but is overwhelmed with the entire process and is still overwhelmed with just getting through all the stuff that needs doing now so a memorial is kind of on the back burner. One of her sister-in-laws has been sort of nagging her about it and Debby is like....well you plan it and I'll be there. She said the venue would need to be a large venue just for the amount of family that he has and if anyone other than family showed up (which she thought was pretty low of very many people coming...I disagree but that's not important right now). She said that maybe at the one year mark for the timeframe, which she acknowledged would be a bad time of the year for people who hunt because that would be November. But it got me thinking.
She has kept all of the cards and notes that people have sent (she has some that she leaves out to look at that have pictures and little stories of Steve and the author) and it kind of gave me an idea. I was thinking that it might be nice to collect a bunch of pictures and stories from people who have hunted, fished, carved, just hung out with Steve and then I could take those and create a book for her so that she could be reminded of how many people liked/admired/loved him from all over the place.
I THINK the easiest way to go about this would be for people to post on this thread and then I could copy the stories and pictures from this thread into some sort of document. I can begin researching the best places to get a book like this made and what I have to do formatting wise so if anyone has ideas on this I would appreciate it. Part of why I think posting on this thread would be good would be because it would allow everyone to share some stories with each other. I know Debby had mentioned at one time perhaps two memorials...one for family and one for his hunting/fishing/carving friends. I know she isn't up for planning two memorials any time soon. I have thought of taking the reins for the hunting/fishing/carving friends but I wouldn't know where to start, how well attended it might be and right now I'm a bit overwhelmed with things. So, in creating this thread it could be kind of a memorial for the hunting/fishing/carving community.
I know that Steve was not always politically correct and could be quite outrageous sometimes so if you have stories/pictures you would like to share that you don't feel should be posted in an online forum but wouldn't mind sharing with Debby, then you can email them to me at
stevesmemorybook@gmail.com
If y'all think this is a good idea and would be open to me creating a book from y'alls stories to give to Debby then feel free to post stories and I'll begin looking for different publishing companies. I don't really have a deadline set in stone on this but since Debby mentioned that maybe at the one year mark, that would be November 13, 2020. I figure that if I had everything together by October 1, 2020 then I could probably get the book printed out for her and have it ready for the memorial service. That way if there is only one service and there are people who would like to come but can't make it for whatever reason, y'all are there in spirit.
So, I suppose here are the "rules":
- One story per post please, makes it easier for me to find where I left off in saving all of the stories to one document.
- At this point there is no limit on how many stories you wish to share or pictures you wish to post with the stories. I don't know what printing books cost but if it becomes super expensive, then folk with lots and lots and lots of stories (if there are people like that) will be asked to choose which ones they'd prefer to see printed. I don't really want to limit people in telling stories they think are worth remembering and sharing, but I have no clue how much something like this would cost.
- At this point the deadline is September 1, 2020 for posting stories that will get put into the book. If people continue to post stories after that, maybe I can include them in the book but until I know how the book creation thing works I'd like to give myself a month for formatting and fixing punctuation stuff (like the insertion of question marks that should be something else).
- The stories don't necessarily have to be hunting related. They can be carving related, fishing, lobster fests, carving shows, boat shows, outrageous things that made you laugh that he did, acts of kindness that really touched you....basically stories that y'all would like to share about Steve.
I would like to keep this thread here so that I'm not going all over the internet trying to collect stories for this project. Plus it gives me a gauge on how much interest there is in a project like this. If there isn't much interest, then I will move on from this idea. I know though there are people who posted in the original thread who do not visit often so if y'all know people who would possibly be interested in this, shoot them this threads link. They don't have to post here...they can email me at the email above if they would like. I just don't want stories posted all over the internet that I have to keep track of.
Sooooo I guess...are you guys interested in this?
Maybe Eric could make this a sticky if people are really on board with this.
And y'all please continue to keep Debby in your thoughts.
Dani