Scott,
Not to make you feel old...but you sound like my father...and both of you are giving the same good advise. He went through surgury about 7 years now, and has been clean since. My dad's urologist told him to tell me by age 40 to be tested regularly just like Joe said. When tested and caught early, there are options to deal with it. I've known others, who either didn't catch it early enough, or didn't like the choices, and paid the ultimate price. Fellas, the earlier you catch it, the better the choices.
BTW nice story about Lee, and I'll be thinking of you between now and Thursday.
Chuck